The Gottman Chronicles: Bidding, Turning Towards, and the Drama of Emotional Bank Accounts
In the thrilling saga of relationships, Dr. John Gottman emerges as the wise oracle, revealing the secret currency that governs the emotional economy of love – bids for connection. Picture this: a grand auction house where partners bid for attention, affection, and understanding. In this riveting drama, turning towards, turning away, and turning against become the plot twists that can make or break the narrative
Love Maps; The Google Map of your Partner’s Inner World
The necessary ingredient for a strong friendship and relationship: Love Maps. Deepening the knowledge of your partner’s inner world, their hopes, dreams, aspirations, worries and stresses, isn’t just an intellectual exercise. When individuals share with each other, it draws them closer emotionally. It keeps them connected. Dr Gottman states “Without such a love map, you can’t really know your spouse. And if you don’t really know some-one, how can you truly love them?”